The following are the key and main traits you will need to run successful dating game. It’s a simple checklist you can check off what you have or what you need to develop in order to successfully get laid, or keep your woman you’re with interested. The list contains the basics of almost every post here on game, on one level or another, but if you are just starting out, or need a quick refresher, we’re here to provide. Without further ado:

Essential Traits for Attraction

Lack of fear: Losing both the fear of approaching girls, but also lack the fear of losing a girl. Most guys in a relationship that is starting to grow and build tend to revert to nice guy mode, not because they’re really nice, but because they’re afraid that if they aren’t nice, the girl they’re with won’t be/stay interested in them. This is always the wrong thing to do.

Charisma: You will need to be able to talk to girls with a certain cocky, funny, teasing, intelligent, social sophisticated demeanour. One of the hardest things to teach a single man. Mostly learned through watching other alpha’s as they work a girl or a room. Learn to observe behaviours, body language, things said, and how the people you want to be like act in social situations.

Desire to have sex: Without this, you’re pretty much lost. Go play a video game if you don’t have a desire for sex and stop reading this blog.

Confidence: Could have put this under Charisma, but you need to have an unwavering confidence in yourself and your sexual market place value. If you don’t have this yet, you will need to fake it till you make it. But you will always be at a disadvantage and will directly lead to fear.

Playfulness: You can’t just be a complete asshole all the time. Single girls like to play, and they like a playful jerk, where being a jerk isn’t totally serious all the time, but someone they can smack and giggle at and say, ‘uh you’re such a jerk.’ – if you don’t know what I’m talking about, you are a beta and you need to stop being a nice guy, like yesterday.

Positivity: You need to have a positive outlook on life, most importantly your life. If you lack this, she won’t be interested in you for very long. Don’t be a soul suck. No one likes a downer and a killjoy, especially chicks.

Indifference/Aloofness: Don’t care what she does, or what she says. Her opinions are of little weight and concern to you. Only when she genuinely interests you, or makes you angry can you lose the aloofness for either engaged conversation, or swift punishment. Then immediately revert to daily aloof behaviour.

Time/Energy: Like all these things, you need to put the appropriate time and energy aside for your enjoyment of the fairer sex. Be it to go out and get new lays, or to keep the girl your with’s interest. You have all these main basic factors going for you, you can get laid a lot, or keep a girl around.